I remember back when I first hinted and then finally asked that He be more dominant in our marriage.  As He has said, He didn’t know what to do really.  And I waited around frustrated.  The more I waited the more frustrated I became.  He said he was up for making some changes, but I wasn’t seeing any.  Did he forget?  Did he change his mind?  Did I make a huge mistake?

I finally did the right thing and took my frustrations to him.  I poured my heart out and realized He was just confused and didn’t want to make a wrong move.  I told Him that I didn’t feel like I should lead the changes because that is pretty much the opposite of what I was going for.  He said He would try.  That’s all He could do.

After that, He started asking me lots of questions.  Sometimes He initiated a conversation with me sitting on the floor by Him as He has talked about in His posts.  Sometimes he would ask me a question and ask that I answer in writing so that He could study the answer and really understand me.

Things started looking up from there.  So, for those of you who have written me about what to do after the very first move has been made, there it is… COMMUNICATE.

God bless you,

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