I am preparing a post on my anniversary present–and it’s quite the little number.  But in the mean time, I need to answer a question that has been sent to me more than once.

NO.  No, I was not abused as a kid or teenager or adult.  No, I’ve never had any traumatic sexual experiences that were violent or otherwise forceful.  No, my father was not domineering or legalistic.  No, my mother was not a doormat.

I am just a woman, who upon self reflection, realized I am happiest when in submission to the man I chose.  Not too far back into human history, this was considered the norm.

If you are not wired this way, that is great and I hope you are truly happy. I have found what makes me truly happy too.


God bless you,

God’s gift to him